Sometimes I think that I'm the pickiest person ever and then I think "Oh nah, I'm just selective" and completely disregard the thought.
Recently I've acknowledged it again.
I've tried dating different types of guys and maybe just once I liked the guy straight off the bat. It takes me a while to get over the visual flaws and let my attraction to his personality take over. Now of course that last sentence sounds vain, but I don't intend it to, it's the way I am and I wish it weren't.
On the other hand dating guys I find more attractive than I am give me low self-esteem.
There's really no in between for me.
The reason I've been dwelling on this lately is because my mom decided to try hooking me up with this Greek kid her co-worker knows (it was the woman's suggestion). The thought of blind dating is a giant mind groan to me, but I've never dated anyone Greek before and am quite curious. I'm almost embarrassed to say that I'm too lazy to start something new. The whole "getting to know you" thing is exhausting and when it doesn't work out, discouraging. We've been chatting on Facebook since yesterday and...he has nice grammar?
It's just too soon to tell.
Funfetti Cupcake
1 year ago
4 comments:
FINALLY.
Ugh, it really is tiresome to "get to know someone" all over again, but it doesn't hurt to try something different just for the hell of it. You could end up with something amazing, or at least fun =D
The whole "getting to know you" game is arduous, and is the basic reason why dating sucks. Look at it this way; either you play the game or date someone you already know. Like Ryan...
o-o I'm just as picky err "selective" as you D; <3
The whole getting to know you think pretty much ends up being too similar to that typical "perfect romance" and when it fails it is quite discouraging.
Perhaps we'll be secure enough to get to know someone who is also far more attractive than us and make it work? :x <33
Okay, well, he just sent me a message and at the end asked me for my number. Why am I so reluctant in giving it to him? I have this weird feeling in my stomach like I wanna lock myself in my room and never come out. I'm too awkward for this.
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